Monday, 6 October 2014

What matters is what you are on the inside.

As goes by the famous saying by Plato “Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder”;
and thus it comprehends that the outlook of matters in every phenomenon can be best realized when looked through our inner self. It is not what is on the surface that matters; but what matters is how it is in the inside. To start with inanimate beings to living beings; everything needs to find an interpretation of its true self. The inner self can speak volumes about everything. You just need to find it. 

The well-known American poet Robert Frost in his poem, “After Apple-Picking” describes life even in the flake of snow. The pain of grass when we trample it with our feet has been adorned with his charm of diction. Hence, it is how we perceive things that account for in our lives. The Gospel of Truth is we see what we want to see in others. We tame our minds to stress upon the factors we are looking for in our companion. This triggers the bond between any individual. If we do good, we will see good in everyone. That is the way how we nurture our being. In various instances of life, there are several tiny flicks when a situation is scrutinized and interpreted in extremely different parameters by various individuals. Why is it so? Why is there a difference in opinion about the same situation from different people around? The answer is the way we look through the situation. When our eyes do look at some grandiloquent manifestation of nature, the way we appreciate it or put it off determines how we feel for it. The golden gleams of the sun can be visualized as a pure Goddess of beauty or just a mere day with some scorching sunlight. Do we look into the magnanimous power of the huge ball of fire? Do we get inspired by its determination to stand still through its path to give us the light which is the essence of living beings? Or do we just ignore it as “THE SUN” that rises in the east and sets in the west. Every single object or being we possess in our surroundings has its own beauty. Sometimes we cannot differentiate when a person right in front of us has masked his pain through his/her cheerful face. We take things for granted but to know that were mistaken. You need to be in the cocoon and struggle for long in order to transform your life into the magnificent colors of a butterfly. We have to come out our comfort zone and analyze, what is in the inside. What is the main focal point? Every feeling we go through has a different turnover. Our anger, hatred, frustration, joy, solitude, everything has a different story to tell. Everyone is not entitled to experience SOLITUDE. Solitude is not the absence of company, but the moment when our inner being speaks to us, helping us decide on trivial matters. We need to bond with our inner self and know ourselves.

If you are never alone, you cannot know yourself. And if you do not know yourself, you will begin to fear the void.

They say, “All that glitters is not GOLD”. It is very appropriate as of today’s era of the 21st century where mere physical appearance becomes the reason of deviation for all. The hold on materialistic inanimate beings is too much on the nerves to look into anything beyond the surface. The art of appreciating a painting, looking at the depth of it and interpreting it through the emotions painted by the artist has dissolved. Bygone are the days when the common mass took interest in appreciating the aboriginal beauty. The present culture believes only in the presentation of the surface. We can appreciate things only if we appreciate our inner self, our conscience. When we meditate, we try to focus all our attention to one point which becomes the source of our energy. The rhythmic breathing gives our mind the required relaxation, the peace it had been looking for and the time to nurture itself. For the nurture of our self being, we need to focus all our energy on developing our inner self to fight through the various anomalies we encounter every single moment. Life has its own way to curve and bend through like the course of a river before it merges into a vast vivacious ocean. In similar fashion, our lives’ courses have been developed in a way that we get to look through all loopholes and potholes, put ourselves in ditch and then rise from our own ruins like “The Phoenix” and conquer building our own castle. Considering every single individual, accounting for myself, there are a number of situations when we judge a person through pre-conceived notions and the gossip glare of the common mass. Rather than creating an opinion based on self-judgment, we look at a person through someone else’s perspective. Little do we realize the blunder we are committing. To survive in this rapidly expanding global domain, we need to get our work done. But, losing your self-conscience, your morale and the common sense to judge a particular issue/person must not vanish into the flames. We need to be master of ourselves. Giving space to our inner self will help us reach heights that are improbable on the materialistic level. Speculation of ourselves will help us become better beings.

We are not perfect. Accepting this fact and cultivating the desire to grow and learn adds a feather to the inner being.

The Importance of LIFE

Love yourself as you have never loved anyone. Love is that spark that kindles life.. Today you might say that a girlfriend is a headache but when she cares about you and loves you more than anything you realize her importance. It’s the same who think boyfriend is a head on trouble.. Your mom and dad are the ones who have caressed you with the silver spoon from the day you arrived in this beautiful yet ugly world. Your friends, who will do anything to see you smiling, will get into fights that would lead them into something very unpredictable, then why do you think that your life is only yours??
Today you wish to do something grievously wrong and heart-striking but have YOU just looked back once n thought about the ones that have always loved you..??
To every single person in the world, here I say: Live your life as if you are a gift from God, live it in such a way that people will ENVY you. Love yourself as no one can ever LOVE you. The most important asset of YOU is YOU yourself.
The tears that have burned down the eyes will never forget the pain that brought them into wen you left leaving a dead silence. You never know what your importance in someone’s life is. You might be an inspiration to someone, a fatherly figure for someone, someone's idol, a best friend, a lover, a crush, and a good human being.
Life has a lot of twists and turns, ups and downs, a PERSON who can overcome and all still hold upright the SMILE unchanged in all ways is a person who has CONQUERED the world..
Realize your potential. Every person is UNIQUE in the way they’re because GOD doesn't create GARBAGE. Discover your potential and Identify the Talent inside you. Explore the world...let everyone know what’s your story..
Financial problems, family problems have always been the main pressure over all the wonderful persons who are endowed with exuberant energy and capabilities and have achieved what they wanted in life...
GROW up, MATURE as a person. Do look at your shortcomings but don't let it OVERPOWER you. Make yourself strong enough to give a blow to every PAIN that comes your way. Be so determined that failure would be afraid to see you.
PROMISE YOURSELF TODAY: I love myself. I will make myself happy n that would help me to achieve my goal.

Energy of love

The profound desire of human being is to achieve eternity with love and peace. But we all realize is that LOVE is lost half way. Why is it so? How many of us have asked ourselves this? The energy of love is the requiem of the UNIVERSE. We lose the capacity in successive steps to find ourselves this energy. We all desire for money, power and social status. We forget in our due course that LOVE in all its form is missing. We start feeling the urge to have someone who would hold on to us no matter what and pamper us till the end. When we feel we have no one beside us, loneliness eats our soul. We subject ourselves to bad habits feeding ourselves to THE WORST. It’s a shame that we initially consider MONEY as the reason for happiness. We forget to take in the fact that it’s temporary. What is permanent is the song that our hearts require. That’s the music called love.  Love can mend a broken heart, hold hearts intact, bind with the power of universe and mend the improbable. We feel lost in our course of life at one point or the other. We feel the anger inside subside and realize that love is what has been missing.



The camaraderie of solitude and fidelity is the necessity of our soul. Our heart calls out for THAT FEELING which is long gone away. Human being eventually turns old and withered with time but there’s one medicine that gives remedy and provides eternal bliss to the individual. The ever blissful, eternal, peaceful, lovable and forgiving – It’s called LOVE. There’s nothing you can do to get over it. It will always remain close and take you down. It is a calm feeling that runs all over you and desires for more and more. I feel the energy of love by my side. I myself have gone through a series of pain that kept me ringing through my heart with unimaginable and beyond words pain. But I have learned about it, gave myself another chance and found THE BEST for me. Yes, I have found LOVE again. I discovered myself through a new plethora of thought, love and memories. The peace that accompanies his presence and the touch is magical
. My heart incites me for him as I grow closer. It’s a feeling that lingers within your soul and you let it eat your soul with its softness, passion and perfectness. We shouldn't give up our love at any point of time but live with it. We shouldn't think it’s gone. It can never be gone. It’s always inside YOU. You just need to discover it for yourself. Today you say he is gone. He can never be gone. Finding love again is finding the same person not physically but mentally close to you, within you, around you bringing in the same scintillating feeling you always desired for. It’s what we are supposed to get that we achieve in life and not what we thought of. We always portray our perfect man. We think he’s the one; he’s what we ever dreamt in our fairy-tale dreams. But while portraying our perfect and feeling it physically and mentally we let our reasons overpower our emotion which is a blunder.



Life has a lot to teach us and share with us only if we give ourselves to it. It’s not easy to get over the fact of losing someone but it is clearly not tough to find ourselves when we are misguided. It is never too late to do the right thing. Give a hand to your conscience and breathe with it the true meaning and feeling of the energy of LOVE. This life would seem magical and magnificent. Live it with the grandeur you deserve and not because someone forces you to live it timidly. Realize LOVE in the true sense.
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You will have the right partner by your side..

Is it my fault I am a GIRL ? 16-12-2012

Another soul was ripped off. Here's yet brutal truth that no matter what you do to survive in this city of dreams, vibrant, light and vast culture; YOU ARE NOT SAFE.!It's not a new prick to the underlying cases of molestation and sexually abusive behaviour that there's another one to freshen up the wounds of the past.I believe every girl like me has a dream, some expectations from herself; which she indeed has a motive to achieve no matter how difficult the road untravelled be. But what if someone goes through such a henious crime as this? SHe was an aspiring medical student. It had been so difficult for her parents to make both ends meet. How everything came crushing down just in a span of an hour.! 

IS IT SO DIFFICULT TO TRY TO BEHAVE AS A HUMAN BEING? IS IT SO PAINFUL TO CONTROL YOUR ANIMALITY FOR ONCE?

I pity on the people who lose their rational behaviour, their calm conscience just to satisfy their anger, aggression and animal nature.We all need to think over what we are doing! We need to think for once that is it right what we are doing? I am not saying you are accountable to God or someone else, but you are accountable to yourself. It's we wh are the future working force of this country. We can just make a small effort to make a small change in ourselves so that we could be better human beings ATLEAST. I do not say I am perfect . We all have some loop holes but we can make a change.

It's high time we try to be BOLD, raise our VOICES not only to these issues but for EVERY matter which is ignoble and is unjust.

"I am deeply moved by so and so..", said by our honourable ministers and prime minister.!! But is it really difficult to pass a bill rather than passing a bill for promotions. I am not against the government but I believe some bill or law has to be passed to ensure capital punishment.

I wish there would be a safe place soon so that our mothers, sisters and the future generation would roam around freely without the fear of being tortured by the arms of some monster heart.

If you all girls want to cherish your dream, explore your options and be self dependent, you have to act according. It's THE CALL OF THE HOUR.!